These days, it’s discouraging to read all the stories about travel dangers, especially for women whose vacations have become nightmares. Here’s what you need to know to stay safe while you indulge your wanderlust in this big, wide, wonderful world.
Pack your street smarts
along with your hiking boots and bikini.
, an attractive blonde Southern grad. from Birmingham, Alabama, traveled to the Caribbean Island of Aruba with her senior classmates and chaperones. Tragically, the last night of her trip, she went to a local bar called Carlos and Charlie’s, met three local guys, and was last seen alive getting into a car with them. One of the boys was held for three months on suspicion and then released to go to college. No charges were filed against him or anyone else. Eleven years after she disappeared, Natalie is still missing.
Use the buddy system
Get smart about Rophynol, “the date rape drug”,
which is odorless, tasteless, and colorless. If a guy buys you a drink, don’t accept it unless you see the bartender pour it. Carry your drink around with you. Don’t leave your glass unattended to go dance or to the toilet.
Trust your instincts.
Don’t do things you wouldn’t do at home: drink too much alone leave a bar with a stranger and go to his apartment, accept a ride from a stranger, walk in a dark, deserted street alone. If you have a small feeling that something is wrong, or “off”, get out.
No “Nice Girl”
There is power in vocal embarrassment.
You may need to be forceful. I discovered this in India when I had issues with a man following me. Men are shamed by a verbal, loud woman admonishing them in public. Practice screaming before you leave home! Also shame them by shaking your finger in their faces. Even if the crowd doesn’t understand your words, they will understand your indignation and gestures. Most sleazy men do not want public attention.
The three reasons women can be easy targets;
lack of awareness of your surroundings,timid body language and being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Ask for help or company if you feel uncomfortable.
More tips and advice here.